Through so many years, we been saying this person this, this person that.... here not good, there not well... but .. who are we to judge? But to be frank..... its a natural tendency for people to judge... you cant stop them, you cant stop yourself..... so.. how?

The only thing you change..... the way people judge.... NOT stopping people from judging.....

Senario 1

Guy: she always ignore me, do this to me...(negative) blah bla blah.....etc
Fren: wa she is such a bitch....
Guy: oi.. who are you to judge her?

See the irony? The judgement from F comes from the info fed by G.. so if G wants F to stop judging so negatively about his gurl, stop complaining......

Senario 2

Eg. 1
Cast: petty gurl and fren

F: hey, you know u quite petty? maybe you can be more gracious?
PG: who are you to judge if i am petty or not?

If one has the mentality of "who are you to judge", will he/she ever learn from mistake?
I donno.. don wanna judge... :p

Eg.2
Cast: Emo person and fren

F: actually u quite emo u know?
EP: *who are u to judge?* No i not emo! who say I emo! i never emo wat!!!why u say me emo!!!!!!

Summary... normally if close frens advise close frens with regards to their behaviour, its for the good course....theres' no reason for close frens to harm close frens....unless.. that fren is not that close....SO>>>>

u cant stop people from judging you... BUT you can change how they judge through reflection...

DECLARATION: "who are u to judge" will not be used on my frens be it i am happy, pissed, neutral or angry with them. Or even hate them.

May all my frens remind me when i am not mindful of my actions, and may the Triple Gems guide me.

There is suffering, dukkha. Dukkha should be understood. Dukkha has been understood

There is the origin of suffering, which is attachment to desire. Desire should be let go of. Desire has been let go of.

There is the cessation of suffering, of dukkha. The cessation of dukkha should be realised. The cessation of dukkha has been realised.

There is the Eightfold Path- the way out of suffering. This path should be developed. The final insight into arahantship is:‘This path has been fully developed.’



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